Major discussion on private ownership, inheritance rights, family, and kinship issues

Private Ownership, Inheritance Rights, Family and Kinship Issues Discussion

Recently, comrades in the association encountered many questions while studying the book “The Origin of the Family, Private Property and the State,” one of the more important being the significance of inheritance rights. Below are the chat records of the related discussion, followed by a summary from chatGPT.

Original Discussion:

Swamp Soldier: Why do men in the family hope that their sons will inherit the property, rather than caring about floods and other disasters after I die?

Five Nine: It depends on class; for the proletariat, there is essentially no property to inherit, only the bourgeoisie has property to pass down.

Red Art: What Five Nine said and what Swamp Soldier said are not the same issue. Swamp Soldier’s question is based on the premise of inheriting property; he is asking why, under patriarchy, men choose to inherit property instead of just being selfish and not caring after death. The proletariat has no property, while the bourgeoisie has property to inherit—that’s a different matter from why they choose to inherit rather than die.

Red Jacobin: To provide for old age. It’s not for serving after death. Dead men know nothing, all is empty.

Swamp Soldier: Well, the bourgeoisie can live quite comfortably without having sons, but that feels unscientific. I remember saying I want to live casually, and my mom asked what we would do when we’re old (you need to support us). I felt that with so much money, they could just manage their business to keep living comfortably—what’s that got to do with me?

October Wind: Many bourgeois think that if they don’t pass down their property, their life has no meaning. They see capital appreciation and developing the family business as their only goal. My dad is like that; he thinks I don’t want to gamble with him or inherit the family business, and he goes crazy, feeling that there’s no point in striving anymore.

Nannah: Why do the bourgeois have such ideas? I remember someone asked a similar question before and I answered, but I forgot how I said it.

Fury Flame: Doesn’t Swamp Soldier play historical simulation games? Which monarch doesn’t care about their descendants?

Swamp Soldier: I rarely play.

Fury Flame: Without descendants, it’s game over.

October Wind: After no heirs, it’s all over.

Five Nine: Descendants need to have enough ability to continue what they inherit; otherwise, it’s a failure.

Swamp Soldier: I understand the principle, but it’s hard to imagine. I know it’s common, but still hard to picture.

Fury Flame: It’s hard for Swamp Soldier to imagine. For children, they are the heirs to their parents’ ideals, but children may not follow their parents’ ideals. Different parents have different ideals. The bourgeoisie and petty bourgeoisie hope their children inherit and develop the family business to make the family proud. Materially, private property in a private society is everything; if children succeed, it’s like oneself succeeding. The family is oneself, and oneself is the family. Without heirs, it’s like having nothing.

Jinsong: Speaking of which, I used to play a cultivation sect simulation game, where I loved recruiting disciples with good “talents,” then expanding the sect—kind of like capitalists raising children to inherit wealth.

Fury Flame: In a private society, the family is a private economic unit.

Four Eight: Exactly, my mom wants me to gamble on becoming a worker noble, but I’ve never heard him say that.

Fury Flame: The counterpart to inheritance rights is the obligation to support, which is a contradiction. Private families bind parents and children through interests. When children need care, parents provide good food and drink; when parents need care, children repay them. But this interest relationship isn’t only when children are young or parents are old. Inheritance rights and support obligations establish the deepest economic ties between parents and children in private families. In a private society, private owners are always scheming—there are no eternal friends, only eternal interests. The deepest interest connection is between parents and children, so they say “Only family is truly trustworthy.”

Swamp Soldier: Do they maintain contact after death to let children continue to succeed?

Fury Flame: Feudal patriarchs naturally see this inheritance relationship as the most important and reliable. Once children accept their worldview, they will think so too. Before death, children should succeed; if they succeed, it’s like the parent succeeding. Aren’t you alive? The living should focus on living. Setting aside old age care, isn’t the alliance of interests between parents and children always in effect? Private owners only trust those with shared interests. From this logic, parents and children are the most trustworthy. That’s why most private owners, including parents and children, promote and believe in this essentially interest-based kinship. Family, private ownership, and the state—do you know why Engels titled his book “The Origin of the Family, Private Property and the State”?

Swamp Soldier: Why fear losing one’s property after death?

Fury Flame: Family issues must be understood from the perspective of private ownership. Only capital that is constantly moving can exert influence.

Swamp Soldier: Is it because they want to uphold private ownership itself?

Fury Flame: From a practical standpoint, without heirs, what if you get old and can’t manage your affairs? There are many unexpected situations. What if your business collapses? What if your body fails? Don’t you need to consider all this? Private ownership is fragile, especially small private ownership, so it needs allies to maintain it. The bourgeoisie also fears their power and status collapsing. Because private society involves fierce struggles, they must rely on allies, and the most trustworthy allies are family members, because sharing family property and inheritance interests binds them together. That’s why exploiters always prefer nepotism. Swamp Soldier’s speculative questions are detached from reality. It’s repeatedly emphasized that family members are interest alliances, and inheritance relationships are economic interest ties connecting the living. Swamp Soldier keeps asking if inheritance is about fear of death—unknown life, how can one know death? You don’t care about what living people want, so why care about the dead?

Red Jacobin: If you have no children and pass capital to a professional agent, it might be taken away immediately. The bourgeoisie wants to expand capital, not like petty bourgeoisie who think having some money in the bank is enough for carefree enjoyment.

Fury Flame: What’s the most important logic here? It’s a quote from Churchill, reflecting the private owner’s mentality: only eternal interests, no eternal friends. In the eyes of private owners, only those with shared interests are trustworthy. They don’t look at morality; there’s no supra-class morality. The most moral thing for private owners is interests. The relationship of property inheritance and sharing between parents and children is the most crucial economic interest relationship, so it’s considered the most trustworthy in their view. Even brothers are unreliable; parents and children are the most reliable. Even close siblings need to settle accounts, but parents and children don’t need to settle accounts openly. In a private society, everywhere is scheming, everywhere is conflict of interests, everywhere is deception. Competition is everywhere, so naturally, they want more friends and fewer enemies, and the most important friends are their parents and children. Of course, friends are ultimately just friends, not oneself; if conflicts of interest occur between parents and children, it can turn deadly. Private owners are ultimately private owners. Does Swamp Soldier have a super-class illusion about family love? I feel that way—Swamp Soldier is too fond of kinship. Swamp Soldier said: “This is fatherly love,” then tears flowed freely.

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Summary of chatGPT:

I. The Economic Essence of the Family: The Cell of Private Ownership

(1) The family is not a naturally existing “community of kinship,” but an economic unit of a private property society.
In primitive societies without private property, the family mainly consisted of blood relations and production communities; relationships between men and women, old and young were based on labor division and living cooperation.
But once private property, especially the privatization of means of production (such as land, slaves, shops, factories), appears, the nature of the family immediately changes.
It is no longer just a living organization but an institution for managing, transferring, and multiplying property.
The relationship between parents and children shifts from labor cooperation to economic dominance.
From this point on, the core purpose of the family is twofold:

  • To reproduce labor power (raising children, teaching skills);
  • To reproduce property (accumulating wealth, ensuring inheritance).
    Thus, the family becomes the smallest economic unit of private society, the cell that sustains the private system.

II. The Significance of Inheritance Rights: The System for Capital Continuity

(2) Inheritance rights are not a reflection of “family affection,” but a means of capital continuity.
In private property societies, wealth does not automatically persist.
If capital is not managed and operated, it will depreciate or be seized by others.
When owners grow old, fall ill, or even die unexpectedly, if no one takes over, the wealth immediately loses its master.
Therefore, they must cultivate a trustworthy heir to keep the capital running.
This gives rise to the inheritance system.
Its fundamental purpose is not “parents’ concern for children,” but to find a new manager for the capital.
Hence, inheritance rights are an economic continuation mechanism, not based on moral feelings but on the survival needs of capital itself.


III. The Relationship Between Support Obligations and Inheritance Rights: A Mutually Locking Relationship

(3) Inheritance rights and support obligations are two sides of the same system.
Parents raise children, and children support parents—seemingly mutual aid, but actually arrangements for the exchange of interests among private owners.
Parents provide children with life, education, and resources, essentially as an investment;
Children, in old age, reciprocate, essentially as a repayment.
Inheritance rights are a reward, the “future benefits” parents give to children;
Support obligations are a return, the responsibility of children to maintain the economic cycle of the family.
Together, they form a close alliance of interests, binding parents and children tightly.
This is also why parents say: “Family members are the most trustworthy.”
They believe not in the “power of blood ties,” but in the “firmness of common interests.”


IV. The Origin of Patriarchy: Property Inheritance and Bloodline Confirmation

(4) Patriarchy is not a cultural tradition but a necessity for property inheritance.
In matrilineal clans, children’s blood relations are clear, and property is inherited through the female line.
But when men control the means of production, society begins to pursue “property must be passed to their own children,”
Thus, the “patriarchal system” appears—using social power to ensure that men’s property is inherited by their offspring.
Women are deprived of their status as the center of the family, becoming subordinate and tools,
The father becomes the “ruler” of the family, and the son the “heir” of property.
The so-called “respect for father,” “the three bonds and five virtues,” “the命令 of parents不可违” (the commands of parents cannot be disobeyed),
are all ideological and moral systems established to maintain this inheritance system.


V. The Social Meaning of “Fatherly Love”: The Emotional Form of Economic Relations

(5) Parental “love” for children in class society is often an emotional veneer of economic relations.
This “love” is of course genuine, but its form, direction, and intensity are regulated by social institutions.
Parents love their children not only because of natural reproductive feelings but also because children are the continuation of their property and social status.
The so-called “hoping children become dragons” and “glorify the family” are transferring private owners’ desires to the next generation.
Their education, care, and investment in children are essentially a form of “capital reproduction.”
Thus, “fatherly love” in reality becomes an economic emotion:
It includes care, but also domination;
It contains warmth, but also control.


VI. The Root of Trust: Common Interests, Not Bloodline

(6) Trust relationships in private societies are based on shared interests.
Churchill’s saying “There are no eternal friends, only eternal interests” is not a joke but a principle of capitalist life.
In a society with fierce competition and fragile relationships, the only stable trust comes from aligned interests.
Family is considered “most reliable” not because of blood ties, but because parents and children share the same property and destiny.
Therefore, “brothers should settle accounts clearly, parents and children do not need to do so,”
which illustrates that “trust based on blood ties” is merely trust within an “economic community.”
Once internal family interests split, this trust immediately collapses.


VII. The Role of Family Ethics: Cloaking Property Inheritance in Morality

(7) Traditional ethics such as “filial piety,” “passing down the family,” and “family traditions”
are used to give the inheritance system a sacred veneer.
They portray property inheritance as “heavenly principle,” and obedience as “virtue.”
Encouraging children to morally uphold parental authority,
and justifying parental dominance over children emotionally,
This is the fundamental function of “morality” in private society—
making exploitation and possession seem reasonable and justified.


VIII. Different Views on Family among Bourgeoisie, Petite Bourgeoisie, and Proletariat

(8) Bourgeoisie: Treat the family as an institution for the continuation of capital.
They hope children inherit the family business not out of affection but for the “immortality” of capital.
Their “family” is a small enterprise, a breeding ground for capital reproduction.

(9) Petite bourgeoisie: Most prone to “super-class familial illusions.”
They have some property but lack real security.
They hope for inheritance but also desire family warmth;
They want to maintain parental authority but pursue freedom.
This contradiction makes their ideology most unstable: they believe in “family affection” but are oppressed by it.

(10) Proletariat: Do not support the individualistic attitude of “I don’t care after I die.”
Proletarians have no capital to inherit; their hope is not wealth but that the next generation can live a truly happy life.
This happiness is not individual but based on the liberation of all humanity.
They hope children will no longer be exploited or oppressed, no longer suffer from poverty, gender, or social origin.
This is the “parental love” of the proletariat—not to preserve private property, but to hope that children live in a society without oppression.


IX. Alienation of Emotions and Ideological Struggle

(11) Family affection under private ownership is genuine but alienated by economic interests.
People naturally love their families, but private ownership turns this love into exchange and dependence.
Parents’ love for children is mixed with possession;
Children’s gratitude to parents is mixed with dependence and repayment.
Therefore, these feelings are not entirely human emotions but carry class marks.

(12) The purpose of ideological struggle is to make people see the social roots of their feelings.
When people realize that their “emotional responses” are actually the result of social systems,
they can break free from blind obedience and illusions,
and liberate feelings from possessive relationships.


X. The Future Family View of the Proletariat

(13) The proletariat does not deny family feelings but aims to reform the family system.
They advocate that society should undertake the responsibilities of upbringing and old-age care,
freeing the family from economic burdens.
In the future, the family will no longer be an economic unit but a human relationship based on free association.

(14) In this new society, parent-child relationships will become comrade relationships.
Bound by joint labor, shared ideals, and collective creation,
without “possession” or “obedience,” only mutual respect and care.

(15) True familial love is not about inheritance but about building a new world together.
Only when private ownership is abolished can people love others without the constraints of interests.
At that time, “family” will be a free and equal human union.


Summary:

In private property societies, the family is the last bastion of capitalist domination over human souls.
Parents’ “love” for children and children’s “filial piety”
appear as emotions on the surface but are essentially economic dependencies.
To make feelings truly human again,
private ownership must be broken, and the family liberated from economic ties.
The proletariat does not oppose family or kinship, but aims to free the family from the shackles of property and inheritance, restoring genuine and equal human affection.
This is the practical significance of The Origin of the Family, Private Property, and the State.

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