Not attending school, not working, staying at home, with some savings, inclined towards indulgence.
Question 1: I am now very afraid of going out alone and working, afraid of being scammed and left penniless, afraid of ending up on the streets, and afraid of going hungry.
Question 2: How to deal with bullies? Some people I have encountered since childhood (including my parents) have a strong individualistic mindset, for example, my father. I don’t know how to evaluate him; most of the time, he wants to show his authority and dignity as a feudal parent (such as entering my room or asking me to open the door without my permission, especially now that I live alone). Talking to him logically doesn’t work. I know I should stay away from such people, but in life, conflicts with them are inevitable. How should I respond?
There are so many people in the world who survive through labor. Why do you think that going independent must lead to being scammed to death, sleeping on the streets, or starving and then overeating? Exaggerating the difficulties of self-reliance so ridiculously only reflects how extreme your parasitic lifestyle is, doesn’t it? From this point of view, it is even more necessary to quickly become independent and live your own life.
Secondly, “how to deal with bullies,” based on your description, it’s not just about bullies but about the majority of the bourgeoisie in capitalist society, because they are all engaged in scheming and fighting for personal interests and against others. If you want to survive in a capitalist society, you must fight against them, and also be cautious not to become like them. To achieve this, the only way is to persist in ideological struggle and arm yourself with Marxist thought.
Does your going out alone and working refer to leaving the city you’re currently in? You said you’re living alone now, so where is your source of savings from? Can’t you find a job locally? If you’re worried about being scammed, just ask everyone for judgment.
What do you mean by inevitably having conflicts with these people?
